Most guys think the hard
est part of proposing is deciding on the diamond engagement ring. Sorry…but it’s not.
What many forget is that once that part is over…they need to actually buy the ring in her correct size. And let’s be serious…what guy actually knows this bit of information?
I really recommend taking time to determine the correct size. Any woman who gets an engagement ring is going to be absolutely thrilled and more than eager to put it on and show it off. How disappointing would it be if the ring was too small…or worse, if it was too big and she happened to lose it right away?
I’m not saying you have to be perfect – that’s pretty hard to do. But if you try one of the tricks below…it should help you to get it close enough that she can enjoy it until getting sized properly.
Trick #1: Use a Ring Sizer
Many websites (like Hearts On Fire) will let you download or request a ring sizing tool online. You can also call a jewelry store and ask for one to be sent to you. Once you have it, match it up with a ring from her jewelry box and determine the size. Preferably one that is worn on a ring finger, but if not, just know what finger it is from since all of her fingers are not the same size. Plus, her non-dominant hand ring finger is generally about ¼ size smaller than the other.
Trick #2: Ask a friend
There’s a good chance she has looked at rings herself or has mentioned it to a friend. Confide in her closest friend or sister (if you trust them) and ask them if they know her size or can help get it.
Trick #3: Size it on Your Hand
This is a trick I learned from my own fiancé! I only owned and wore one ring prior to my engagement ring, so one day while I had it off, he slipped it onto his own finger. He marked how far down it went on his hand, and when he went into the store they were able to measure it with their ring size to estimate my size. And guess what…it was perfect!
There are many othe
r ideas out there, so think about what works best for you before jumping right in. Once you have a good idea of size, just talk it over with the salesperson and he or she should be able to advise best from there.
Finally, once you give it to her – even if it seems like a perfect fit – take it in to get it checked as soon as possible. It will make both of you sleep a little better at night!
If you have a ring sizing tip or trick…feel free to share below.
Good luck!
♥ HOF Girl
If you were watching diamond jewelry trends in 2011, you’ll know that last year was quite an exciting time in the world of diamond engagement rings. From all the pomp and circumstance of Kate Middleton’s royal engagement and wedding, to the made-for-TV hooplah of Kim Kardashian’s marriage (and subsequent divorce), and all the celebrity engagements in between, 2011 kept the diamond jewelry industry busy trying to keep up with all the ladies of Hollywood and their trend-setting engagement rings.
Now, while I can’t necessarily predict which celebrities will be saying their “I dos” in 2012, I have spent some time debating what I think the top three diamond engagement ring trends for the year will be. So ladies, and gentlemen, time to listen up!
In my opinion, the diamond fashion trend for 2012 will be eye-catching designs that create an overall striking and unique look. Think rings that seamlessly mix creativity and style with elegance and class, and it’s really no surprise that these three styles are sure to be such a hit with brides-to-be in 2012.
- The Halo—Halos are in, and it’s easy to see why. Originally a fashion icon of the 1920s and 30s, halo diamond engagement rings create a beautiful, art dec
o look that maximizes the brilliance of your diamonds for a truly spectacular look. Especially for couples who are looking for superior value in their engagement ring, the halo of diamonds around the center stone create an amazing effect to make the center stone pop. I expect to see a variety of halo-style diamond engagement rings on the hands of celebrities and average brides alike in 2012…and not just because it’s my personal favorite style (yes, I have a halo and yes, I am biased!).
- Split Shanks—So, sometimes the prettiest things have less-than-beautiful
names, as is the case here with split-shank engagement rings. I used to confuse this style with the typical twisted band, but it’s definitely worth it’s own category. Spectacular for showcasing your center diamond, the defined split shank creates a striking look that maximizes the light returned from every angle (making your diamond sparkle even brighter!). A long-time favorite of Hollywood’s leading ladies, I have a feeling the split shank will once again be making the rounds as one of 2012’s most popular styles for women everywhere.
- Big Solitaires—Solitaire engagement rings are always in, but the key to this year is “big.” And yes, I mean, one, two and even three carat dazzlers. For a while, it seemed t
hat couples were understandably scaling back, but we’ve really been seeing that trend take a turn upward in the past few months. Maybe it’s all the press around enormous stunners on celebrity hands making women yearn for their own, but honestly, who doesn’t love the look of a brilliant round or Dream cut solitaire engagement ring? With multiple options on the band design that make it perfect for any woman’s fashion style or personality, these timeless classics are going to once again light up the bridal industry of 2012.
What style are you hoping for in 2012?
♥ HOF Girl
So now that we’ve talked a lot about what it’s like to get engaged, how to start planning your wedding, and tips for proposing, I thought it was time to provide a glimpse into the world of sparkle that all the ladies out there are dreaming about.
That’s right – it’s time for a few dazzling, Hearts On Fire diamond engagement rings.
I think this part of “doing your homework” is really important. And it doesn’t mean you have to choose your own engagement ring (unless you want to). It doesn’t even mean that you have to drop a hint about what you want in a ring to your boyfriend. But, hey – it’s fun to look no matter what you do with it!
Because not every ring is right for every person. And to be honest, you probably won’t know what style you love the most, or what looks best until you actually try a few on. I always thought I wanted a 3-Stone ring, but when it came down to it I fell in love with the Transcend Dream Single Halo style.
So what’s right for you?
Some people love simple and elegant, with a solitaire that really dazzles (pic #1).
But some people like a twist on the original (pic #2).
Some people like soft and feminine (pic #3).
Some people like a bold and glamorous halo (pic #4).
And some people love something completely unique with a style stands apart (pic #5).
They’re all beautiful, but really think – what sets your heart on fire?
♥ HOF Girl
